... but also the about the need to steer clear of anger and anxiety over the things you can't control. I can't overstate how important it is to keep blows to the ego, real as they often are, from occupying too big a place in your mind and sapping too much of your energy. It's easy to be optimistic when everyone is telling you you're great. It's much harder, and much more necessay, when your sense of yourself is being challenged, and in such a public way.